ever boy hates me in my school i never get a date for a dance it make"s me mad and i just what a boyfriend can you guy"s give me one i live in keokuk iowa and i am 13 i need a boy who is 13 to.

well i had the same problem but guess wut i put a little more lip gloss on and smiled alot more laughed alot more and now i have had 3 boyfriends this year, all in the 8th. So believe in it and u will get it !!:)

how to talk to girl

Hi, Takara Garrett,

Unfortunately, I can't give you a boyfriend. And nobody can give you a boyfriend. Finding and attracting a boyfriend is just one of those skills every girl has to learn, like making change, dealing with school, learning to drive. However, if you'll follow the link above, and read the manual, and work it out, and do what it says, then it tells you how to find and attract a boyfriend. There's a lot to learn, but you just go step by step. Nobody can do it for you. It's a skill to be learned, by you.

Hi, Faith,

Good advice!

Hi, Jay-Z,

You asked: how to talk to a girl. It's just like talking to guys, in a way.

The best way to get good at it, and the best way to get comfortable at it, is to practice. Just like shooting hoops or learning any skill. At first, all of us are clumsy. If you stop, you stay clumsy. If you continue practicing, continue practicing, continue practicing then you get good, and you get comfortable.

How long? Until you get comfortable, and until you get good.

For starters, follow the link above and read the report. It tells you how to talk to a girl. No sense to ask me. It's already written down in the report. Do what it says, and practice, and practice, and you will become comfortable and you'll get good at it.

The 5 dates plan seems alot to me. This is especially because i don't know how to approach the girls. You mentioned that it can be casual with any girl or friend/sister. Do you think you can provide some casual ways to ask a girl to lunch, walk around, coffee, etc. I find that the toughest part.

Fear of rejection and picking the right girl is what plays the biggest roles for me here.

Also, I find some of your exercises qutie tough for me. To tell the truth, I had around three relationships with a girl. None of them are at a trurly 'personal' level. Some i wouldn't even consider a girlfriend.

Hi, Spencer,

Yes, the 5 dates is a lot. And, as discussed in the report you read, less might work, but I don't know. It is known that five dates works. Do you want to do the work to make it work?

As to casual ways, if you have read this report you have read how to ask. And remember, you're starting at where you are *at*. So if you are hanging out with several girls that you wouldn't consider a girlfriend, then you are on your way to success. If you have already dropped those three, then you'll have to start over.

All the questions you ask are already written in the report. Perhaps you might want to read and study it again. And of course, if you don't actually do what it says, then you can't actually get the results it describes.

That's just how it is. I didn't make the rules. I just discovered how some of the rules work. That's just how it is.

Some of the exercises might be tough. If you do them anyway, they'll stop being tough. This is part of the path to success. Not doing it sure won't work. You get to decide what you want to do. And the universe will then provide you with the consequences of what you have chosen. That's just the way it is.

All my friends have boyfriends, everyone i know is dating someone and i guess I can say I am desperate. HELP!

Hi, Stephanie,

Well ... like it says ... read the report.

Do what it says, and you will learn how to become comfortable and skillfull at getting a boyfriend.

So, saying HELP here won't help you a bit, because nobody can do it for you. However, the report tells you what to do and how it works. So 1) read it, 2) study what it says so you understand it, 3) step by step, do what it says, and 4) watch yourself become more and more comfortable and more and more skillfull. You'll probably wind up being more comfortable and skillful than all your friends. (Because many people won't go to any trouble, you see. And if you *will* go to the trouble of reading, understanding, and doing the system, you'll be sharper than most of your friends.)

Good reading, good studying, and good results to you. Go get 'em!

Well, I'm looking for a really sweet and hot guy but for some reason every guy i talk to and start to like turns me off somehow. It's not fair because all my friends have boyfriends and they really really love them. I wanna be that way too. I have like a lot of guys that like me but all the ones that i like dont. I want to go out with someone soo badly but I dunno how find the right guy and how to know I really love him.

Hi, happy,

Well, first of all, it's plenty fair, as things go in this world. What you learn to accomplish determines what you find in life, and that's fair, isn't it?

Sure, luck happens, but when you're prepared and skillful, you'll notice that luck happens better, and you can use the luck better.

As regards what you want and how it works out, in the Sweetheart Report linked above, re-read the part about where you figure out what you're *really* looking for? If you take the time to do what it says to do, so that you can find out what you *really* are looking for, then I think you'll not be disappointed all that often.

There's this guy that I really like, he's 21 and I'm 16. First question here: Is he too old for me? 2. Does he think I'm to young? 3. He friends with my brother, does that change the chances for bad or good? 4. How do I flirt on the internet? 5. It probably doesnt impress a guy when you get drunk, eventhough he likes to drink? 6. Should I tell him I like him?
It's not like I think he's outta my league, it's just the age difference and the distance, because he lives about an hour away. For right now atleast, but during the school year he goes to college, with my brother so i would get to see him when i see my brother. Eventhough that college is kinda far away like 2 hrs.

Well I am 13, I go to a catholic school that only has like 80 peoples in my grade. I would like a boyfriend alot. but all the guys don't like me. I wish I could just get one guy to like me. I don't have many frinds, I have like 2, but I want a boyfreind...can anyone help me out?

I'm 14, and I'm Emailing this girl that I really like and she won't type back. I think she don't like me. How would I get her to like me?

Iam looking for a nice guy but know one likes me and theres this cute guy i like and i ask him out and he played me and tolled me he was goingout with because he felt sorry for me because know one wonted to go with. I wont a boyfriend can anyone help me out?

I am looking for a lady I have the personality and I am not shy when it comes to talking to women but I am shy at getting a relationship with one or if I try to get someone into me I pick ones who are taken and than I look stupid for putting the effort and I only asked one out and I am 19 I am a bit in a hole here what can I do to make a girl find the hint that I am interested without freaking her out so I won't put so much effort into it for nothing

If u want a gf or a bf so bad juss get ur fat @ss of that cushioned seat take a shower go to the salon,brush ur teeth and go look for one. But dont seem too needy or desperate.

slick rick forget about her u idiot therz plenty more out there. It doesnt matter how u feel about her. It matterz how SHE feels about YOU. Just move on. Faith: you dont need guyz like that grl, u too move on get over it try to think about something else and oh make him jealous u dont know whata guy would do to get a grl back when hes jealous. Faith: pay no attention to them, act really cocky and purdy, use makeup, and wear tight and sassy clothez, alwayz carry gum, do ur hair nailz and stuff...but dont complain to me that the guyz are all over u afta that plz

Ta kara garret, just change schoolz, duh. Dont let them get to ya ;)
Sunshine: Dont let ur heart fool u. This guyz gonna play. I'm just tellin u for ur own good. Coz i've seen this stuff happen. College students just think of sex, sex and sex and did i mention sex lolz. But if u really like the guy than stop being so nervous, respect urself u dont have to drink just to impress him JUST BE YOURSELF.

Bloggard admit it i am so much better than u at this lolz jokin

hi my name is jamie bailey and i live in rice texas i'm trying to find away to get my boyfriend back his name is corey and i cheated on him with some other guy and i regreat doing that corey was everything a girl could have and i lost him plz tell me how i can get him back i tried allmost everything i sang a song to all he said was i don't understand you i lost his trust for ever plz tell me how to get him back

plz answer to me as fast as you can

Hello, Jamie Bailey,

First, a human never has a *guarantee* from life that things will work out. I once went with a savvy poker player to the blackjack table. I had a low number so I said "Hit me." Then the dealer's card made me busted.

My friend who was a skillful card player said, "You did the right thing, but you lost."

Because life does not *guarantee* that things work great, every single time, even when you do the right thing. You can only (a) work the odds, and (b) persist. If you work smart, and persist, in the end you will win. But you will NOT win every single battle, whether you feel strongly about it or not.

Imagine how much more poorly a human will fare when they play a game AGAINST the odds, when they refuse to play smart. And here are the odds --

When you cheat a person, and lose their trust, unless that person is very, very stupid, that person will continue to distrust you for quite some time. And what human would want an untrustworthy sweetheart?

You see, you played the odds poorly, you weren't playing smart. The valuable thing is to learn to avoid doing that in future. You might get this one back, or you might not. To attempt to do so is against the odds. Will you go on to a new game AGAINST the odds? You might want to ask yourself why it is so important to play games against the odds. Playing games against the odds almost certainly leads to failure and unhappiness in the end.

So your choices now are: (a) Use the information in the report, and go get another boyfriend. (After all, there are several thousands of them within an hours drive of where you live.) Or (b) You can moon and act all dramatic and hope that your keen sense of drama will cause you among all humans to win AGAINST the odds. (But of course, over time, this pretty much guaranteed to be a losing approach to life.)

I recommend Path A.

You truly need to re-read the free report, especially the part about how to increase your "Havingness." When your havingness is high you will (a) not feel so desparate about that particular boy, and (b) have the ability to choose from among lots of boys.

Oddly enough, this is also the path most likely to cause you to reclaim, in time, the boyfriend who now so obsesses you.

In the meantime, either face to face, or by phone, or via letter, acknowledge your blunder, and without drama, tell your former boyfriend that you (nobody else) made a blunder, that it was stupid, that you regret it, that you still care for him, and that you hope to maintain or recreate a friendly relationship with him ... some day.

Repeat Path A (boosting your havingness using the method in the Sweetheart Report), and from time to time repeat your communication with ex-boyfriend.

Realize that you've lost ground with the ex-boyfriend, and back up to spending time with him, doing anything, not necessarily romantic. If it's meant to be, in the long run (think months and years), it will come about.

It is FAR more likely to come about if you will boost your havingness by using the method.

Drama will cost you. It is better to be a person who goes about playing the game of life and love in a wise manner, than it is to be a dramatic person, trying to get mileage from appealing to others by virtue of how sweet and sad your story is.

Of course, if you're lazy, if you insist on playing out drama, then you won't like my words, because you're not really ready to win yet. If so, well, maybe later.

I think I understand this, because I felt the same way once upon a time. I learned better, and I'll bet you could learn better, too.

Good luck, Jamie Bailey.

PS: Re-read the method and LEARN it. Don't be lazy. And show this page to the boyfriend, if it's appropriate. It might show him that you've accepted responsibility for your actions. That might impress him favorably, and assist your cause.

I am a 24 year old male I feel like a real looser. I have never had a girl friend not that I haven't tried. It's just that every time I find a girl I really like when it comes time to tell her what my true feelings are I just clam up. I figure that has something to do with the fact that I have spent most of my life in poor health and I don't want to hurt the girl by having her put up with the burden of my early death. I know in reality that I all I have been doing is hurtiing those I love with this fact as well as my self.
I am currently in the early stages of a realtionship with a woman that I have considered a good friend for years and I just don't want to lose her. Help me if able.

Well, I assume from your note that you have a terminal medical condition. While I have no special knowledge about this, a couple of things come immediately to mind ...

1) When I imagine myself in this situation, it seems pretty clear that this is not an early-on discussion, because, as you read in the sweetheart report, you never create negative communication early on. You've got to see some *very* positive commitment coming before you bring this up. So my guess is: don't bring it up.

2) On the other hand, most of us love drama, and it may be very compelling to tell her all about your sad, sad case. However, eliciting sympathy or admiration for your bravery is not, in my opinion, the basis for a love affair. So I'd just keep mum, for months and months and months.

3) It also sounds like you have some powerful 'failing' messages going on inside your head. Bummer. That won't help your health. Although I acknowledge that it can be very difficult to think positively when you feel bad -- the body is very strong in that way -- it's also true that damn little advantage or survival accrues to mental dialogue about failing and dying. So I'd suggest that you do what you can to preserve and enhance your health. After all, you're alive *now*, right?

4) To enhance your life and health now, if this is really a serious matter, would mean that you are exercising, eating smart in an obsessed manner, taking tons of vitamins, and studying mental technologies. Among the powerful mental technologies that I know -- some of these I've personally seen to cure and improve things that aren't supposed to be fixable -- are these mental technologies: The Landmark Forum, Focussing, Transactional Analysis, and Silva Mind Control. in books I'd recommend PsychoCybernetics, Rational Therapy, and The Evolution of Consciousness in the Breakdown of the Bi-Cameral Mind.

Your project is do-able. It's winable. Do you want to do it? Do you want to win? I mean, you are alive right now, correct?

hi i really need a girlfriend and i like a lot of then but im way to shy to ask them and too afraid that they will say no. what do i do?

Hello, Kremer,

Kremer, did you read the post above? Did you see how it refers you to a whole manual which tells you how to go about getting a girlfriend? Did you read the manual I've carefully written down to help you?

Did you attempt to apply what it said to do in the manual? Did you read and try the parts where it describes being shy and how to get over that?

Have you read it? Have you tried it?

It says what to do in the book. If you have read it, why are you asking me the same thing here?

If you haven't read it, why not read it and try it?

I don't mean to be unkind, but I've gone to all the trouble to write it all down, and you don't seem to have even gone to the trouble of reading it.

Did I miss something? Or did you just overlook that there is a whole book here written down for your use?

I am 13 and have a crush on two boys and they are friends so what do I do and how do i know if they like me

Gee, it sounds like an echo in here.

Ok brittany stiles, here on this post that tells you about how to read the book to learn all about it, your first step would be to read the book to learn all about it.

After you've read the book and learned all about it, you try the method and see how it works for you.

It's kind of hard for me to answer questions about what you'll be doing in the future, after you've read the book and learned how to do it.

So I guess the time for us to talk more would be after you've read the book and learned how to do it.

In short, my answer to your question, which was what should you do and how to tell if somebody likes you, would be to read the book that's written about that, and try the method written about in the book.

If you didn't see the link to the book, it's at the top of this page. The book is called "The Sweetheart Report" and it tells you most everything you need to know.

hey thanks bloggard i have the girl of my dream now! all thanks to ur manual.
thanks MUCH MUCH MUCH!!!

Kremer,

You are too much, dude. I'll be your cheering section ... kreMER! KreMER! KREMER!

Go, man, go!

If you like a preson and they dont know that you are even alive then you need to make them notice you and then try to get them to like you!!!

i ahte everyone and i dont give a damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
muhahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!

thanks bloggard now i am engaged and i could never be happier in my whole life!!
We are getting married in four and a half months! Thanks again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Will it be necessary to hold hands with a girl you just met?

If i were you then i would do what is most comfurtable to you.

Nothing is *necessary*. Lots of it is fun. Lots of it is exciting. Lots of it is sweet.

Usually, you cannot go faster than your own comfort level. I personally believe you make fewer mistakes going *too slow* than by going *too fast*. So this gives you time to become more comfortable with the process.

And if you follow the report's suggestion to go out five times a week, your experience and comfort level will grow surprisingly quickly.

This is a *feeling* thing. You feel your way. Next thing you know, you feel good!

hey bloggard i read your report but I still have encountered a roadblock to finding a girlfriend. i am in high school and have had lots of fun conversations with girls, but i don't know when or how to ask them on a date- it seems like asking them on a date would be out of the blue and weird. please help!

Hi, Sleepless,

So ask them for "non-dates". A "non date" is anything that isn't a date, but that puts the two of you together in some activity. Some examples:

"Julie, I see that you're struggling a bit with the trigonometry assignment. Since the bell's just ringing for class, I can't help right now, but if you have fifteen minutes after school, I'll be happy to show you how it's done." (Then arrange to meet her at her home, or, even better, go home with her.)

"Jan, I wanted to ask you something. It's just lunchtime. Come sit with me a minute at the cafeteria."

"Gee, Elizabeth, the colors you wear always seem to go together so well, and I don't know how to do that, and I've got to buy a shirt. Would you go with me and show me how to pick out good colors?"

"Alice, your car is making kind of a funny sound. It's probably nothing, but how about letting my friend Joe give a listen. He really knows cars, and it will save you a mechanic's fee." (Then you ride with her to Joe's place for a listen. If you have a car, then have her take you back to your car at school afterwards.)

If she's walking home, start an intense conversation with her just as she starts out the door, and then walk beside her all the way home carrying on the conversation.

She's in the debating society. Join it. Ask her for help. Practice debating at her house or your house.

While the two of you are working on homework (already you're together), get thirsty or hungry and suggest continuing at the drive in, or some cafe or coffeehouse.

If you're trying to get together with one particular one and she's not going for it, consider holding a "study hall" for some troublesome subject or to review for a test at your home for *several* people, and then see if she'll come.

Sit down beside her on the bleachers at a football game. Hand her a coke (because you have two of them in your hand). Start up a conversation about something in her life.

I think there are some other "non-date" examples given in the report, so take another look.

Remember, just walking down the hall with her and conversing is a start. Then if you can persuade her to go to this location ("stop by my locker" for something) or that location ("did you need to check with the office" about something), then you've moved into initiating common activity. Then you just extend your invite/acceptance behaviors bit by bit. Next thing you know, you'll be talking about something you both like (a movie, a debate, a game) and you can invite her to a *real* date. But remember, the non-dates count just as well toward improving your havingness as the "real" ones.

Get the idea?

I have a little problem...
There is a guy that i like and if i dont hurry and say something then he is going to leave the state.
What should I do???
How should I tell him that i have a feeling for him and that I dont want him to leave me here?!?!?!?!

Theres this guy I really like but he dosent like me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How can I make him like me??

HHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!

Hello, Bubbles,

Just as nobody can really MAKE you like them, you cannot actually MAKE somebody like you.

However, the best way to go about it is to "increase your havingness" as is described in the special report, The Sweetheart Report. (See the link above.)

Read the report. Study it. (It's important enough to be worth some effort, right?) Then try doing what it says.

As you become more skillfull at finding and enjoying boyfriends, you will discover that you automatically become more attractive to more of the boys around you. You will also find it much easier to talk and flirt when you wish, and you'll do a better job of it.

This might bring that particular guy around, but even if it didn't, you will discover that you feel completely differently once you have developed a higher skill level. In fact, you might have found some guys that are way cooler than that one guy now.

Can I wave a magic want and MAKE some guy crazy about you, right this minute?

Nope.

Can you learn more about all of this, and become more comfortable and skilled, so that the question you ask will seem simple and obvious to you yourself?

Sure you can.

Read it. Study it. Try it.

Happy hunting!

Hi. I've been fencing for about 2.5 years now, and for at least 2 years there's been this girl in my fencing class that I like. The catch is this: it's kind of a recent phenomenon (only a little more than a month). We seem to have a lot of similarities --- we both fence (obviously), we're both only children, we're not really good at any other kind of sport, we're the same age (16), we're both pretty smart (I've always taken AP math classes and pulled a 4.o, and she skipped a grade), we both go to Christian schools, and we're both shy and introverted. I guess we both have to be around people for a long time before we let our guards down (I just realized that's a fencing pun, too).

So anyway I guess the question is this: How do i change from this shy guy who doesn't talk a lot to a [successful] suitor? I guess I'm just afraid that it's going to seem wierd if I start asking her for her screenname and other stuff like that (I almost asked if she had a s/n last week but for some reason I chickened out). Thank you for any advice at all that you could give me.

Hello Poseidon1912,

The good news is that you've got an easy set-up there. And it's not unusual for affection to develop with nearness. In fact, just creating 'Propinquity" (nearness) is a good strategy in general for increasing a woman's affection and acceptance of you. Since you've been doing that, your situation is pretty good.

Now, *how* to proceed ... First, re-read and study what's already described in the Sweetheart Report about asking people out. There is *lots* of information there that applies to you; if you missed it the first time, study up and it will pay off.

Pay especial attention to the "non-dates," and make up half a dozen ideas of your own, or even more. Keep making up ideas until you see that there is basically no limit to the ideas you could imagine. You may run dry, but the next day you'll think of some more. Write them down on a scrap of paper, no matter how silly they seem, and this process will unlock the floodgates of your imagination. After you've run dry three times, your list is about as full as it's going to get.

Next, a lesson from the world of Private Investigators. I was a private investigator for a brief time (Search "Dr. Detecto" on the Adventures of Bloggard at http://bloggard.com), and in that field sometimes you invent a "pretext".

A "pretext" is pretending to be in some particular situation, so that somebody will give you some information. For example, you want to get the new address of somebody who has moved from the landlady at the old place. If you just say you want the new address, the landlady may refuse, *because she had no reason to think you are entitled to the information*. On the other hand, if you called up and claimed to be calling from UPS, and that you had a parcel for that person, then the landlady would probably give you the information.

Why? Because you've created a (imaginary) situation where it is *reasonable* for the landlady to give you the information. That is, you've created a workable "pretext."

In the same way, you need only create a reasonable pretext to ask your lady friend for her screenname. For example, you've found an article about the blah-blah defense, and you'd like to email it to her (to get an email address). I'm sure you can come up with some reasons to get a screenname, for example, perhaps your pretext is that you'd like to ask her something or other but you've got to look it up on your computer first, and what's her screenname and will she be near her computer this evening?

Of course, remember the Law of Propinquity -- Women become affectionate and accepting toward people more when they're around them more.

This means that ... being together physically is worth *lots* more than being together onscreen. That is, you'll get better results if you can get together physically on a "non-date", and only use email and IM as an enhancement. Even then, the telephone is better than IM.

Sure, the IM and email may seem safer, but remember that ultimate safety would be to hide in a box and speak to nobody and have nobody in your life forever ... not much of a life, eh?

So you *must* put yourself out there. You *must* try (and sometimes fail), and try again. And the process itself will take away the fear and the failure and the pain. It is *persistence* which wins.

And don't forget the main lesson in the Sweetheart Report. If you are focussed *only* on this one girl, then you have a *scarcity* of women, and you have *low* havingness, and this creates the difficulties and worry and clumsiness. So, are you engaging in the Five-Date method given in the Report? And if you are not doing that, do you see how you're *creating* your own low havingness, and thus creating the difficulties and worry and clumsiness? And if you see that, then is it obvious that you should Remedy your Havingness? And that the method for doing that is given in the Sweetheart Report?

Good luck.

I have a little problem...
There is a guy that i like and if i dont hurry and say something then he is going to leave the state.
What should I do???
How should I tell him that i have a feeling for him and that I dont want him to leave me here?!?!?!?!

HHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hello, left all alone,

Well, I have no way to manipulate time. As regards your question, however, you have already answered your question. The answer which you have stated is that you need to -- right now -- tell him, "I have feelings for you and I don't want you to leave me here."

That should open up an interesting conversation. And regardless of how it turns out, you'll be a stronger and wiser person, so it's a "can't lose" kind of deal.

Of course, in the whole of your life, you have asked a *LITTLE* question. Sometimes things seem urgent, but that doesn't always make them important.

The *BIG* question is -- How can you become a person who has no difficulty speaking freely to guys, and who has a wide selection of guys to choose from?

And the answer to that question is to read the Sweetheart Report (link above), and study it carefully, and work at doing what it says, and you will create these skills and this wonderful situation.

And then, next time, there will be no problem of this kind to solve at all.

There is no short cut to doing the work. And it takes as long as it takes; though the sooner you begin, the sooner you'll arive.

The work is fun, however, and the results change your skills and your situation for the rest of your life.

So go to work. Start.

Hey my name is Teelee and see I like this boy that goes to my school and I thought that he liked me because he called me but he likes my cousin and I think she likes him bu she say she don't and I just get so jealous because I really like him alot and he acts like he likes me too so what should I do?

hi my name is stuntman07 and im 13 i still have feelings for my ex (im a dude) and she likes some other guy what should i do ,if this helps any im her best friend , close friend.

WELL HI MY NAME IS JACKIE I JUST GOT DUMPED. SUPOSEABLY IT WAS MY FAULT. BUT I FEEL REALLY BAD BECAUSE MY EX JON USED 2 GET ABOUSED BY HIS MOM AND HE'LL ALWAYS HAVE BRUCES SO ONE DAY I DECIED TO TELL AN ADULT IM (13) AND HE GOT MAD , THE POLICE WAS NOTIFED AND SO WAS THE CPS (CHILD PROTECTER SERVICE) HE SAID THAT IT WAS MY FAULT THAT HIS MOM WAS GONNA GET LOCKED UP! THAT TIME HE TOLD ME IT WAS OVER I FELT THE WORLD CAME DOWN ON ME! I CRYED A LOT I EVEN TRYED 2 SUICED, I 'M STILL I LITTLE DEPRESS WELL MY FRIENDS SAY THAT I DID THE CORECT THING DO U THINK SO? HE SAID HE TRUSED ME AND I BETRAYED HIM I FELL REALLY BAD WUT DO U THINK I SOULD DO? I ALREADY SAID I WAS SORRY . DO U THINK I DID THE CORECT THING? PLEASE SOMEONE WRITE 2 ME! GIVE ME ADVISE

stuntman07
I think u sould tell ur ex how u feel i think shell understand. why did u guys break up ? try to work things out with her.

thank you bloggard i am now with the love of my life and i could never be happier and now in three months instead of just him leaving the state we are both leaving together. And then maybe we will get married and i am pregnant!!! then we will have a happy family in kansas city missori!!!

thanks to the Sweetheart report i can finally talk to guys without studdering!!!

thank you again!!! and again!!! and again!!!

stuntman07
if i were you then i would as JACKIE_DREAMGIRL says and just talk to her and try to work it out. and why did you two break up in the first place? was it you or was it her? answer that and see where it gets you first!

JACKIE_DREAMGIRL
i think that you did the right thing and if i were you and if you loved this guy then i would let him go and help him out with what he needs the most help with!

i am a bitch and i need help to over come that and get a real boyfriend. and not one that beats on me all of the time!

i am a bitch and i need help to over come that and get a real boyfriend. and not one that beats on me all of the time!
PPPPPPPPPPLLLLLLLLLLZZZZZZZZZZ HELP ME OR I WONT BE AROUND FOR MUCH LONGER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mi name is danny tipper and im finding hard 2 get a girlfriend please send me some advice thanks and also i like sum1 very much but she dont like me please help thankyou danny tipper

its me again and i still am finding it hard 2 find sum1 everybody hates me and all da girls think im ugly and i feel lonely coz all mi m8ts have got girlfriends and im left out i need sum1 2 luv and im 14 years old and im in year 10 and i cant get a girlfriend im ashamed of myself i hate myself thanks danny tipper

OK, for the_little_Bitch and daniel tipper,

Here are a few suggestions.

1) Stop swearing and learn to spell and punctuate sentences. If you don't, you're going to have the rest of your life limited and many attractive people won't give you the time of day, because they will think you are dumb. I'm sure you are not dumb, but if you present yourself dumb, some good folks will think you are. Now you could get mad about it, and think that perhaps there is some reason that other folks out in the world somehow should spend the time to see *past* the dumb act. But then, you probably don't spend that kind of time for other folks, so it wouldn't be sensible to expect that other folks will spend that kind of time for you, when they don't know you yet. So my first bit of advice is to lose the swearing, poor spelling, and incorrect sentences. Present yourself as intelligent, and you're more likely to attract someone intelligent. It's easy to lose the swearing, spell correctly, and punctuate sentences, so that's the first step.

2) All through life there will be some people who will put you down. This happens to everyone, not just you. Sometimes they will be wrong, and unkind, and of course since we all make blunders, some time they will even be correct. Yow!

However, there is one person who you can control and you can make sure that one person does NOT put you down. And you are in luck, because you are always near to that person and you can control that person. That person is you.

So your next step is to absolutely and always stop putting yourself down. For example, calling yourself the little Bitch. That is not a good thing. What you create in your mind and in your words is the way you will then see the world. If you create words that spell you out as being of little worth, then you will see the world that way. And you *won't* enjoy it.

If you present yourself as being of little worth, then other people will accept you as you have presented yourself. For example, if you say you're a bitch, then you can only attract people who are looking for somebody bitchy who they can beat up. Get it?

You create your world, and how you see the world, with your words. There is *no* advantage in creating a world you don't want. Better to create, in your words, a world in which are attractive, desirable, and a world in which you can succeed.

3) The next step is to pay better attention. For example, at the top of this page, it tells you where you can find all the information you need. I've taken the trouble to write it all down and its easy to obtain. You're so busy thinking you don't notice that the answer is before you? Or is that you can't go to the trouble of reading it? You want me to *send* it to you, when I've already made it freely available?

Come on. How much do you think other people owe you? It's only *you* going out and getting what you want that will cause it to happen. Fortunately, to do this is easy.

Go back to the top of the page. It tells how you can learn what you need to know. There is a link. The link is to an online book that gives all the secrets. Read the book. Do what it says. You'll get what you want.

For the_little_Bitch, do you realize that between the time you first posted and then posted again, you could have completely read the book, started doing what it says, and been on the way to getting what you want?

And for danny tipper, if it's too hard for you, the alternative is to give up, go lie down in the gutter, and get nothing. Is that attractive? Will it be dramatic? Will everyone be filled with the beautiful sadness of it all? Suppose everyone feels sorry for your sad state? Suppose you accomplish that. Now, is that better than getting what you say you want?

4) You're both smart people. To act smart, and in your own best interest, then go to the top of this page, find the link to the book ("The Sweetheart Report"), go get the book and read the book. Do what it says and you'll get what you want. It's that simple.

On the other hand, don't bother, just complain about things, and get nothing you want. It's your choice.

See what I mean?

I have read the swetheart report and I am now doing what is says and now I am on the right track. I also dont have that boyfriend any longer! My new name is also the enjoyer1

thank you bloggard I am now with the love of my life and I could never be happier and now in three months instead of just him leaving the state we are both leaving together. And then maybe we will get married and I am pregnant!!! They say that it is a girl!! Then we will have a happy family in Kansas City Missori!!!

You go, girl!
You go, girl!
You go, girl!

Congratulations to the_little- Oops! to the-enjoyer1!

And congratulations to (previously) left_all_alone!

I could not have done it if it was not for you bloggard! Thanks so much for the advise and for all of your help!!

i now have a boyfriend that loves me for me and he does not want to beat me up all of the time thanks to you and the sweetheart report. how can i ever repay you? if there is anything that i can do then let me kno!

i now have a boyfriend that loves me for me and he does not want to beat me up all of the time thanks to you and the sweetheart report. how can i ever repay you? if there is anything that i can do then let me kno! PLEASE JUST LET ME KNOW WHAT I CAN DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have a real problem! i don't know how to tell this guy that I like that I like him. I am only 16 and I have had this problem more then once before! The whole thing about it is that I have almost all of my classes with him and I sit next to him in almost all of them! I don't know what to do anymore! I have liked this guy for about 6 - 8 months and I want him to know how I fell but I don't know how to go about telling him that I love him and would do anything for him to be my boyfriend!!!!!!! Please Bloggard HELP because if you don't then I will be stuck loving him forever and he will not know how I really feel abour him!!!

Hi, enjoyer1,

Thanks for the nice note. I'm happy for you. If you want to do a thank you, then why not just pass it on? I mean, why not just help some other folks who might be lonely by steering them to the Sweetheart Report so they can have a nice result like you did?

It would be swell if you did that, and you'd be helping other folks, too.

Hello, the lonely one,

Well, here's what you do.

1) Go back to the top of the page and find the link that takes you to "The Sweetheart Report".

2) Actually get The Sweetheart Report and read it, and then if you want to change your life, then change your behavior by doing what it says in The Sweetheart Report.

3) If you will read and do what it says, you will learn how to tell the guy that you like him, and you'll meet some other guys as well, and with practice you'll discover that you can tell anyone *anything*.

Or on the other hand, just do nothing and don't bother with learning anything new and you can just go on just as you are now and you'll have just what you have now.

It's your choice.